57 ways to amp up your sex life
From sexperts, TOC staffers, burlesque performers, adult toy store owners and average readers, too.
Check out ’70s porn. Unlike what’s produced now, the stars have natural bodies, and the movies have great themes and a different sense of art direction. I recommend Behind the Green Door and The Opening of Misty Beethoven.—EP
Share a bedtime story. Buy a collection of erotic stories—check out The Erotic Edge (Plume, $15), Frenzy (Cleis, $14.95) or Please, Sir (Cleis, $14.95) for starters. Flip to a random story and try out some aspect of the story. Each person has the opportunity to veto if they’re not into it. —DH
Snog in your Snuggie. Yes, we are as over the Snuggie as we are the vocoder. But we’re all for knocking boots in comfort, warmth and plain-sight secrecy, and that’s where the warm embrace of the as-seen-on-TV sleeved blanket comes in. A new book titled The Snuggie Sutra (St. Martin’s, $9.99) by Lex Friedman and Megan Morrison offers 100 ways to have some erotic, undercover fun with positions such as the Tunnel of Love, the Moby Dick and the Banana Split.
We be jammin’. An easy way to achieve a G-spot and clitoral orgasm during sex is the We-Vibe ($100 at g boutique). One end of the purple C-shaped vibrator rests and vibrates inside the vagina right on top of the G-spot, while the other end rests and vibrates on the clitoris. It has nine speeds, and it’s rechargeable and waterproof. The most impressive aspect of this toy is that it can be worn during intercourse. Yes, ma’am, he can fit in while it vibrates on your G-spot and clitoris! It makes his job much easier and your job a lot more fun. —Anna, sales associate, g boutique
Harness the power. Tie me up, tie me down with a slew of harness options designed to spice things up for all body types. Early to Bed instructor/author Midori’s Hands-on Rope Body Harness class covers everything from secure rigging and pain-slut harnesses to sensual breast bondage, plus get a little practice time in before trying your new tricks on your sig o. Open to all genders. Nov 14 at 7pm; individual $30, pair $50.