57 ways to amp up your sex life
From sexperts, TOC staffers, burlesque performers, adult toy store owners and average readers, too.
Give him the vibe. A silver bullet or small hard-plastic vibrator can feel excellent on the underside of a guy’s penis or even on his testicles. Start with a gentle touch…if he has never had that sensation before, it can be incredibly intense. —SD
Make a pit stop. If your partner has a penis, grab some lube and get creative—just don’t let him stick it in your vagina or anus. Instead, try armpit sex (also known as auxiliary sex or “bagpiping”) or sex between the thighs (fancy name = interfemoral sex). It can be a great break from typical intercourse if you’re sore from sex or, as a woman, if you don’t feel like taking out your tampon. Plus, it’s fun! And oddly arousing. —DH
I TRIED IT!
Oh, the laughs my man and I had while trying to, uh, bagpipe. Arousing it wasn’t, but cracking up in the bedroom is always welcome. —female TOC staffer
Get a blow by blow. Never heard of the hummer, the yummer, the flicker or the tickler? You’ll have mastered that mouthful and more after taking g boutique’s Tickle His Pickle Blowjob Workshop. Nov 3, 16; $35.
Draw your own porn. Get out a piece of paper and two pens. Then draw what you want to do to each other: genitals, mouth, breasts, sex fluids—don’t leave a thing out. Then get naked and make your naughty cartoons come alive. —DH
Engage in Operation Push. Ladies, while engaged in penetrative sex or other fun activities, press down on the top of your mons (above your clitoris). You might find orgasm easier to get to because you are putting pressure on the internal part of the clit. —SD
I TRIED IT!
Putting pressure on this area during missionary sex was pretty awesome: It angled my clitoris up, allowing my dude’s pelvis to hit it with every thrust. No orgasm achieved as a result, but it sure felt good. —female TOC staffer